Vulnerability Is a Strength: How Being Real Unlocks Deeper Connection

Vulnerability Is a Strength: How Being Real Unlocks Deeper Connection

Vulnerability. It’s a word that can make your heart race, your throat tighten, or even trigger a desire to pull away. So often, we hear vulnerability described as a weakness — as if showing our true feelings or admitting when we’re struggling will leave us open to judgment, rejection, or failure. We’re flipping the script on the idea that vulnerability is weakness — because vulnerability is a strength.

But what if that story about vulnerability was flipped on its head? What if vulnerability is actually one of the greatest strengths we can cultivate?

When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we are stepping into courage. We are inviting authenticity into our lives, showing up fully — even when it feels scary. Being vulnerable means embracing the full spectrum of our humanity, including our fears, imperfections, and raw emotions. It means choosing connection over isolation.

Think about your closest relationships — the moments when you’ve truly felt seen and understood. Chances are, those moments happened when someone allowed themselves to be vulnerable. Vulnerability builds trust and deepens intimacy. It’s the soil in which empathy grows. And for creatives, vulnerability is the spark that ignites genuine expression and innovation.

Creative energy can easily become blocked by fear: fear of criticism, fear of failure, fear of not being “good enough.” Vulnerability invites us to step through those fears and create from a place of honesty and truth. It’s the willingness to say, “This is me, my work, my feelings,” without needing to hide behind perfection or masks.

If you find yourself holding back—whether in your relationships or your creative work—try this: start small. Share one honest feeling with someone you trust, or allow yourself to put a piece of your authentic work out into the world without overthinking the outcome. Notice how it feels to open that door.

Remember: vulnerability is a practice, not a one-time act. It requires patience, self-compassion, and courage. But the rewards are immense—deeper connections, richer creativity, and a more aligned, resilient you.

If you want to explore how to cultivate vulnerability and turn it into your creative superpower, I’m here to guide you.
👉 Book your free call here


If we haven’t met yet, hi! I’m Lex Joyal — Microdosing coach who is passionate about helping highly sensitive humans connect with their emotions with the help of psychedelics and movement. If you like my content and want more of it in your life, here are a few ways you can connect with me:

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Enlist me as your coach: There’s a certain magic you’ll unlock with microdosing. I offer individual microdosing coaching for those who are ready to make sustainable change using psychedelics as a tool. If you want to get a taste of microdosing and emotions coaching, schedule a free sample session to see if we’re a good fit.

To get in touch with me directly email lex@lexjoyal.com Have the sweetest day!

Vulnerability. It’s a word that can make your heart race, your throat tighten, or even trigger a desire to pull away. So often, we hear vulnerability described as a weakness — as if showing our true feelings or admitting when we’re struggling will leave us open to judgment, rejection, or failure. We’re flipping the script on the idea that vulnerability is weakness — because vulnerability is a strength.

But what if that story about vulnerability was flipped on its head? What if vulnerability is actually one of the greatest strengths we can cultivate?

When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we are stepping into courage. We are inviting authenticity into our lives, showing up fully — even when it feels scary. Being vulnerable means embracing the full spectrum of our humanity, including our fears, imperfections, and raw emotions. It means choosing connection over isolation.

Think about your closest relationships — the moments when you’ve truly felt seen and understood. Chances are, those moments happened when someone allowed themselves to be vulnerable. Vulnerability builds trust and deepens intimacy. It’s the soil in which empathy grows. And for creatives, vulnerability is the spark that ignites genuine expression and innovation.

Creative energy can easily become blocked by fear: fear of criticism, fear of failure, fear of not being “good enough.” Vulnerability invites us to step through those fears and create from a place of honesty and truth. It’s the willingness to say, “This is me, my work, my feelings,” without needing to hide behind perfection or masks.

If you find yourself holding back—whether in your relationships or your creative work—try this: start small. Share one honest feeling with someone you trust, or allow yourself to put a piece of your authentic work out into the world without overthinking the outcome. Notice how it feels to open that door.

Remember: vulnerability is a practice, not a one-time act. It requires patience, self-compassion, and courage. But the rewards are immense—deeper connections, richer creativity, and a more aligned, resilient you.

If you want to explore how to cultivate vulnerability and turn it into your creative superpower, I’m here to guide you.
👉 Book your free call here


If we haven’t met yet, hi! I’m Lex Joyal — Microdosing coach who is passionate about helping highly sensitive humans connect with their emotions with the help of psychedelics and movement. If you like my content and want more of it in your life, here are a few ways you can connect with me:

Subscribe to my newsletter: Change is an art, a part of life, and a lifelong practice that I wish would have been part of the curriculum in school. I’m honing in on the who, what, when, where, why, and how, of all things change and personal evolution. Expect insight and action-based content as I cross the intersection of science and spirituality, and break down concepts that highly intrigue me 😋. Click here to subscribe!

Read the rest of my blog: The hub of everything — from improving emotional resilience, psychedelic integration, exploration tips and advice — to stories from my own psychedelic experiences, spirituality for the spiritually-curious, and more. If you like this post, you’ll love the blog! Here’s a roundup of my most popular posts.

Download my free microdosing guide: The most comprehensive guide to starting or expanding your microdosing journey with mushrooms. I walk you through the 7 steps I take myself and all my clients through to take this from recreational to transformative. Most importantly, I make it accessible for those who want this to become a major tool in their toolbox — It’s all yours for free.

Enlist me as your coach: There’s a certain magic you’ll unlock with microdosing. I offer individual microdosing coaching for those who are ready to make sustainable change using psychedelics as a tool. If you want to get a taste of microdosing and emotions coaching, schedule a free sample session to see if we’re a good fit.

To get in touch with me directly email lex@lexjoyal.com Have the sweetest day!

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Now I use my emotions as my guide toward my deepest calling, align my energy with what I want to create, and magnetize the magic of the life I always wanted directly into my reality.

If you've been wondering why you can't seem to find momentum in your life no matter how hard you try, or why things just always seem a little off, even when they check all the boxes, this is your invitation to come have a seat and let's look at what's really holding you back so we can take the steps toward brave action, together. Healing doesn't have to be so hard.

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Are you experimenting with psychedelics on your own? this may help

Want an expert approach to microdosing for real change? I've poured my heart into this guide to give you the full protocol I not only take myself through, but all my clients. From intention setting to specific integration practices, this is the best microdosing guide you'll find if you really want to tap into the plant wisdom.

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